A few years ago, we were living in a tiny town in New Mexico
while Paul attended grad school. (Who knew that’s where they hide one of the top
hydrology programs in the nation?) We loved our little town and our close-knit
church congregation and our callings in the primary and Elder’s quorum
presidencies, but it wasn’t long before the Lord decided to shake things up.
Out of the blue, Paul and I were called as leaders of the local
LDS cub scout pack over the 8- and 9-year-old boys. I knew when I married a
hard-core boy scout that he would probably have a lot of scout callings, but I
never thought I’d have to do it too! We
were told that it was an important calling. We were supposed to be consistent,
build up the pack, and use the scouting program for missionary work. I was
pretty nervous about it, since I knew nothing about cub scouts or little boys, but
Paul and I were excited for the chance to serve together!
We started with just one boy from the ward, then another
turned eight and we had two, but neither of them came every single week. We
were somewhat discouraged, as we put a lot of effort into planning lessons and
activities every week, and we had to bring our young daughter in her pajamas to
the Thursday night meetings. I was tired and pregnant, and barely fit into my
new scout shirt. We felt like our time and energy were being wasted on just one
or two boys. Two rounds of recruitment yielded no improvement.
But we did not give up. We prayed in nearly every prayer for
the Lord to help us grow the pack. We never got lazy in planning the Thursday
night meetings, and we invited anyone we could think of to join. We talked to
new neighbors, boys that we’d see around town, and the bishop helped us by
encouraging the less active members with sons of cub scout age.
One day, Paul went to get the car repaired. As the
receptionist gave him a ride home, Paul found out that she had two sons old
enough for cub scouts. They started coming faithfully, and were our first
non-LDS recruits.
We continued to pray for more boys and to open our mouths.
Another LDS boy turned 8 and joined the
pack. A new family moved into the ward with a 9-year-old boy. The bishop’s
prodding of a less active family gained us two more unbaptized cubs. Things
were getting exciting - we were finally able to plan group activities as they
were intended!
As the year went on, word spread around the schools through
the boys and their parents. A Muslim boy joined on the day of our cub scout
cookout, and was happy to see we had all-beef hot dogs! The bishop’s son turned
8, and two more nonmembers joined the pack. Another boy with a less active
father was convinced by the bishop to give cub scouts a try. His mother was
soon baptized.
Things were growing so fast we could hardly keep up! Another
two nonmembers joined the pack, one the brother of another of our cubs. During
this time, Paul and I were having a family taught in our home by the
missionaries. Their 9-year-old son started attending cub scouts. Soon he and
his father were baptized.
The pack was huge, and the boys were actually achieving
things. We had boys earning wolf badges, bear badges, arrow heads, and belt
loops right and left. Best of all, one of the sons of the receptionist at the
car place ended up receiving his Arrow of Light. He graduated up into Boy
Scouts!
Another less active family showed up at cub scouts one
night. The twin boys were actually too young to join, but we invited them to
participate anyway. They came every week, and began coming to church. Even the
Christian Scientist mother came to church once or twice, and the daughter
sometimes attended Young Women activities.
We tried to find ways to use our calling for missionary
work. We knew it was good just to get nonmembers into the church building to
feel the spirit of it every Thursday night, but we wanted to do more than that.
We told the boys they could pray however they wanted, but if they didn’t have a
preference, we taught them the LDS way. Even the Muslim and many of the
Catholics prayed vocally this way. We made sure nonmembers knew when their LDS
pack members were being baptized, and we often invited them to ward activities.
A few showed up to the ward Halloween party.
We also tried to be a presence in the community. We went out
on field trips in uniform so people could see our pack and want to join. We
went to the city newspaper office, the university mineral museum, the campus
police station, and even the locally-owned grocery store. We also marched with
our float in the county fair parade, passing out flyers to invite more boys to
join. After that, our pack was invited to participate in the town Sept. 11th
commemoration, handing out pins to the first responders!
Four more boys joined after that. Not all of our boys came
every week, but we usually had about ten or eleven on any given week. About
three-quarters of our boys were not LDS. When Paul graduated and we moved away,
we reluctantly handed our calling over to our FIVE replacements.
When we were given the dreaded cub scout calling, we had a
pack of one boy. When we left two years later, we had eighteen. Yes, we worked hard every week
to prepare for Thursday evenings. Yes, the bishop and others helped to spread
the word about cub scouts. And yes, we prayed very hard for the Lord to help us
grow our pack. In the end, we know that it was the Lord who blessed us with
these boys, and with the opportunity to learn and grow from this experience.
Maybe cub scouts isn’t so bad after all!
Grace with her Pinewood Derby car:) |
Thanks for sharing... What a great example!
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